It saddens me to see many failed marriages. People are busy. They try to imitate others. Compare your spouse with family and friends, and thus kill the uniqueness of your relationship. Here are some suggestions to feed her marriage to happiness and make them sustainable.
1). Exclusivity - in the relationship, you should be aware that you are an individual and unique. His story is unique. Circumstances and experiences are unique. And the opportunities and threats to their relationship to be unique too. The relationship between them is a trip. Live in every time. Do not try to imitate the experiences of our brothers and fathers and friends. They have their own way, which is different from yours.
2). Time - no matter how busy you are, take some time to another. "I have time" or "I'm busy with office work" does not work.
3). Individuality - couples often considered as a single unit. However, remember that you are two different people and different identity. There can be no dispute. There may be differences of opinion. These differences of opinion which gives strength to your relationship and provide exclusivity. Unfortunately, you did not marry your clone. You both have the space to accommodate these differences. Before you want to accept the other as an individual.
4). Communications - no matter what medium you decide to choose, but to communicate as soon as possible. Silence is the language as well, but at the moment, is not as effective as it was. Communicate to kill the rumors. Communication to resolve the misunderstanding. Communicate to destroy gossip. If you are unable to communicate, and others do not do for you, but you. Your wife must be aware of everything that can affect the present and future of your relationship.
5). Love and respect - love is the strength of the relationship between them. Love each other for no reason. Look for any occasion to express your love. Expression anyway, all the time. Your love is the reason for your family (the next generation) and his family is not a reason to love. Sad
to hear people say that they are living together for the future of
their children, not because they are in love with each other.
6). Remainder trust and other believers - confidence. Trust and loyalty are the queues that hold the relationship together. If you can not trust each other, then you can not live together, regardless of how much they love. Love without trust is false and unrealistic.
A long and happy marriage is not a destination. This is a work in progress. It requires a sincere and honest to two people involved in this effort. Coexistence is not social responsibility. It should not be a source of concern. There must be an obligation or duty. Must be passion. Should be fun and enjoyment. More importantly, you need to help them grow - together and individually.
Get a happy married life. Enjoy and have fun.
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