Are You Sure You're Ready?

Wedding - is a lifetime commitment with someone to share the love and moments of disgust , in sickness and in health, for better or for worse. Before you decide , consider some things . What is the character of the person you want to marry ? Is that person loving, caring , and you like what you really are, or that person is a tyrant , selfish and want to change to satisfy the selfish desires ?

Think. Do - it would be better to marry than to be always there for you , it would be a good father to their future children , and be there to provide what you need which is essential , but you do not like this person? You can come to love this person for the character of your spouse would . Now, if you thought you were in love with someone who was abusive, would probably cheat on you somewhere along the way , and are not always completely honest or do you still marry that person because you have fallen in love ? Is it really worth being verbally or physically ill and have a terrible life, because you are in love ? Probably end with either their livelihood is threatened or become deeply depressed by divorce. Again , would it be worth it? When you look at what you want your spouse is , you see the main features that you want in this person? How is the person with other people on a regular basis? Best behavior is usually a great thing in dating. How is this person when angry , depressed, quite normal? Have you observed near and far ? It is important to see the main features of this person, or you may find yourself a terrible life with someone you thought not seeing the real person , or perhaps not knowing that person enough because you were so in love which does not matter .

Make sure you really know that person before diving into the chapter of marriage. If you look, there may be rocks on the bottom waiting to crush you. If you need advice , go to someone you know really cares about you and has your best interests at heart . Listen, if you agree or not . Throughout the hearing, you may lose the ball in front of you . Obviously, this is not thought to be assessed against in your pocket. Take it at face value and when you feel you have made the right decision, understand.