The Magic of TOUCH in Marriage

I visited with a couple the other day who are both in their second marriage. They are good friends, so do not know much about their relationship. However, they always seem to be very happy every time we meet.

As the conversation progresses, you can see the emotions began to fly . At one point, she turned to her husband and said, " never take my hand again!" And we felt in the tone of her voice that she aspired to the tip of her husband.

The husband was speechless , perhaps recognizing in her head she was right. Or maybe he thought she did not deserve her affection. But there were other people involved in the conversation , I redirected it .

However, this was a defining moment for this couple . Probably one of the first times that the woman told her husband what she wanted him in marriage.

My belief is that you should be his wife Romancing using the five senses. Each person is affected differently each sense of touch, sight, hearing, smell and taste. Part of the fun of being in a relationship is to find out what the most impressive with his wife .

For example , I brought very fragrant flowers to my girlfriend this week. I think they were the lilies. Several times she told me how wonderful it smelled like would emit a pleasure when I was in the room with her. I think it combines the beautiful smell of the beauty of our relationship?

Back to the couple.

The husband now has an opening to give your wife what she needs him . I hope not to hurry observation very negative , but use it to rekindle the flames of their marriage.

In many relationships , the sense of touch becomes a thing of the past, such as marriage , it disappears. When couples fight and lose the closeness that is almost touching it can make women want to jump out of your skin and scream . This reaction is probably caused by the thought that her husband wants sex , which in his mind, he does not deserve.

But remember , when he met his wife? The first signs non - verbal affection were tactile. Touch his arm , holding her hand , even putting his hand on his knee probably preceded the first kiss . Touch can help you rebuild love in your marriage.

If the woman does not play much , do not use sexual contact at first. The combination of contact with kind words can rebuild love in marriage. Just start slow with holding hands and touching his arm or shoulder. Reheat in touch and see how he reacts before doing more.

Over time , you can find this beautiful and seductive in their marriage.