Many Men, Few Husbands

Hearing the news can sometimes be anything but pleasant . The bad news travels faster than good news and tell more pleasant to the ears and eyes. The reason for this is not different from what is buried in the heart of the individual who is just looking to compare him / her with others to raise their heads high and say. "I 'm better than this guy " looking for the glory of men leaves nothing but tears in the mouth of the Godhead. Everything is done to minimize the other while trying to win the praise of others at all costs , even sensual . This is currently seen in the kinds of things that men do. They try to outsmart their peers official recognition. They want to buy a van when your neighbor just bought a sedan and aspire to fornicate with as many women as his friend did last night.

This endless competition is often in men , as mentioned above, the level of the meat . However, it is rare to see husbands competitors would be the best husband. Only few people could look at your neighbor and say , " who has qualities that are worthy of emulation to make your family happier . " What the case is reviewed . The husband, who rushes home from work called boring because he chooses " suspended " with his family instead of " hang out" with friends. In fact, it is a shame how we fell down.

It is sad to read stories of husbands who either beat or even kill your spouse what they call " the devil's work " and " angry." It is even more sad that the husband professed eternal love , not only for the ears of his spouse, but in the presence of the Divine. So what happened? You may not be aware that most men are not prepared to become husbands as they are not ready to be parents. Being a husband is not inherent , but must be learned with a humble and willing heart .

The failure to be a good husband can not ignore education at home and what has been taught since the days of youth. It is possible that we are all very busy ensuring that children learn chemistry and mathematics, but ignore basic training in human relations , the value and sacredness of the human person , and moral conduct . We're too busy to make children memorize the names and the number of bones in the human body that we do not care to ensure that the memory is the right attitude and words in order to raise the human mind. This is probably because we are absorbed in the immediate and "seen" . We want to see the result of a protected child is written in black and white on your report sheet . Are not often concerned about the feelings of others to our own children are now happy first. This is no doubt a puzzle why, in some families, in-laws and defend their own even when they can stand on the side of the fault .

It is true that women are necessary and to build a house. Women are expected to be of aid to the creative work of the Divine. They can make or break a man , if they wish . Most of the time , women are after growth and positive development of your spouse, say words and encouragement and advice . The problem however is that most men do not listen. They often feel they know everything . Men can sometimes have their heads buried in the clouds and find any opportunity to express his authority. Often imitate the lifestyle of people from other cultures do not have a lot of respect for Christ, but to imitate in any case as an excuse to satisfy his excessive desire for maximum enjoyment .

However, the challenge is how to make all our children to become good husbands in the future. To do this, we must lead by example and not by words without works , because even children know the difference . A child who grew up watching his father beat his wife would be wrong to believe that the woman is called to be slaves and beat at will. On the other hand , growing up in a family where there is nothing but love and expressed between his parents and his brothers would then grow in love and continue to fan the flames of your desire to continue live in a house full of nothing but love. The general excuse is that women are a human change good for the worst, but people do change when they want to change . A man would agree to a change to be a " bad husband " and came home late at night after drinking and hanging out with other girls, but blame their actions on women ignoring the fact that it is in reality for a moment the pleasure derived from the lust that leads . If your wife forces you to change, is not it a time to embrace the Bible more and spend more time in prayer and meditation? do you think the bottle hugging and sleeping in the lap of the other ladies shine would you change? Christians turn to the Divine face mountains that seem immovable. They do not include the devil.

Finally , perhaps if we begin to teach our children the importance of being a good husband would be less marriages, broken families failed. If you 're struggling to be good husbands ourselves directly from now , we may be saving countless souls who come into contact with our children. Perhaps, it is not only women who have to go with crying children on their knees in prayer for the repentance of her husband. Man should too. If man can also go on their knees , crying in prayer , not only do children learn the lesson of humility, the weakness of the flesh and the desire of the soul to the Divine, but also unlearn what is now preached in all parts of the gospel that man is second only to God.