It saddens me to see many failed marriages . People are busy . They try to imitate others . Compare your spouse with family and friends , and thus kill the uniqueness of your relationship. Here are some suggestions to feed her marriage to happiness and make them sustainable.
1) . Exclusivity - in the relationship , you should be aware that you are an individual and unique . His story is unique . Circumstances and experiences are unique . And the opportunities and threats to their relationship to be unique too . The relationship between them is a trip . Live in every time . Do not try to imitate the experiences of our brothers and fathers and friends. They have their own way , which is different from yours .
2) . Time - no matter how busy you are , take some time for another . " I have time " or " I'm busy with office work " does not work .
3) . Individuality - couples often considered as a single unit . However , remember that you are two different people and different identity . There can be no dispute . There may be differences of opinion . These differences of opinion which gives strength to your relationship and provide exclusivity. Unfortunately , you did not marry your clone . You both have the space to accommodate these differences . Before you want to accept the other as an individual.
4) . Communications - no matter what medium you decide to choose, but to communicate as soon as possible . Silence is the language as well, but at the moment , is not as effective as it was. Communicate to kill the rumors. Communication to resolve the misunderstanding . Communicate to destroy gossip . If you are unable to communicate, and others do not do for you , but you. Your wife must be aware of everything that can affect the present and future of your relationship.
5 ) . Love and respect - love is the strength of the relationship between them . Love each other for no reason . Look for any occasion to express your love. Expression anyway , all the time . Your love is the reason for your family ( the next generation ) and his family is not a reason to love . Sad
to hear people say that they are living together for the future of
their children and not because they are in love with each other .
6) . Remainder trust and other believers - confidence . Trust and loyalty are the queues that hold the relationship together . If you can not trust each other , then you can not live together , regardless of how much they love . Love without trust is false and unrealistic .
A long and happy marriage is not a destination. This is a work in progress . It requires a sincere and honest to two people involved in this effort . Coexistence is not social responsibility. It should not be a source of concern . There must be an obligation or duty . Must be passion. Should be fun and enjoyment. More importantly , you need to help them grow - together and individually .
Get a happy married life . Enjoy and have fun.
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