Is He, In Every Way, Your Equal?

How many articles have you seen or even studied, where women are encouraged to be attractive to men , or the type of guy who wants to get married? Do you think this is good advice ? Perhaps, but only to a certain extent .

At some level , we must strive every day to live up to the highest potential, and thus attract high-quality partner . But keep in mind that the focus on you, your dreams and your goals , you do not pay in non-genuine copy of you just to get the guy .

On another level , it actually disarm advice because it is a position of inferiority . It is suggested that women are less automatically , which are needed to make ends meet normal standards of man . It also puts the burden on women to be the guardian of the relationship and if it fails , and the implicit message is that it is not enough or tried to do "right" way . The deficit is with her.

The Board is directed generally toward the classic heterosexual relationships . But I see that the following tips while stipulates conditions heterosexual , applies to all relationships , regardless of gender orientation .And is based on a strong relationship of equality . Therefore, not only to work on polishing his car fantastic, but you may be asking , " Is this the man , in all my way equal ? "

This does not mean that it should offer all the same things to the table , but must be willing and able to provide the same quality of the food you make. For example , if you work in your personal development , it is reasonable to expect that it is also committed to appear in their own growth and development.

Successful relationship can be difficult to obtain and maintain , and have a great result , it is easier to be happy and successful in their relationships. So , look for someone who you share strong similarities in most areas of life . Finding a healthy overlap in belief systems , for example , needs and desires and goals and values ​​upon which , mothers and intelligence , education , income, and preferences , entertainment , and life .

Romance and marriage is not the place to sell yourself short . To comply . Resolve . Thus, for each potential partner , always ask yourself , " Is this the man , in all my way equal ? " Listen to your own wisdom , their own logic and intuition, the answer is no .