Divorce has become very common in the current society; as a result many families are left in mayhem. Different people have chosen different methods of trying to heal the painful wound of crashing matrimony. Below is a list of some of the ways we perused in the divorce diaries.
A glitter of hope.As New Year approaches, I give a ray of hope. Hope is just a near distance away and I am sure of that since I am nearly there. Time taken maybe a while or even years but I am certain as I am not a stranger to this.
Written wall.This is how my marriage ended. It started with continuous complaints that I never understood what the reason was for them. A bang followed next. It is now clear that back then I was blinded to recognize the writings that were clearly written on the wall.
You are of no use and will never develop into anything. These words were thrown to me by my former lover as our matrimony was in the process unraveling. Acknowledging him ceremoniously would be my wish for those heart smashing, insensitive words. Little did he know that those words instead added favor to my life. Through his words, he motivated me to aim higher and accomplish a worthwhile life of course without him. Currently it is very clear that this is the moment I had been longing for.
Commercializing divorce. An ending marriage is never prepared by the society. Just as weddings, by now you should have thought that someone somewhere should have come with a way of turning an ending marriage into a machine for profit making. It is very sensible considering that half of the first marriages and almost three quarter of subsequent marriages end up in a divorce. It is so common that a slight nerve firm could come in and convert divorce into a gold mine.
Strangers can give help cheaply.People that I never knew in my disorder of ending marriage would mostly question me on; how did you do it? How did you get it over you? People that know me mostly do not ask as they know about almost everything. Answering the questions from strangers, I narrate it, again I narrate it, over and over again. As I continue speaking about it again and again, I realize that am coming over it. A regular chat and sharing with anyone anywhere works for sure.
Do not share with kids despite being single. Realizing when not to say a thing is something I have realized since I turned into a single mom. Though managing household is one of the various things associated with a dying marriage it should not be an irritation and instead you should work hard on them. The job is meant to be mine and I am never to be ever complaining around my babies as to why I am working all the errands alone.
List of grateful at things. I ought to be appreciative to something. Through my journey towards contentment, I have come to a realization that finding your sense of happiness is in the way very essential. Counting my blessings together with looking on the bright side of life is the way to take.
It is conclusive advising that one should join others in sharing their divorce experience as one will be able to come up with various ways upon which he or she can use as stepping stones from the emotional pain of heartbreak.
A glitter of hope.As New Year approaches, I give a ray of hope. Hope is just a near distance away and I am sure of that since I am nearly there. Time taken maybe a while or even years but I am certain as I am not a stranger to this.
Written wall.This is how my marriage ended. It started with continuous complaints that I never understood what the reason was for them. A bang followed next. It is now clear that back then I was blinded to recognize the writings that were clearly written on the wall.
You are of no use and will never develop into anything. These words were thrown to me by my former lover as our matrimony was in the process unraveling. Acknowledging him ceremoniously would be my wish for those heart smashing, insensitive words. Little did he know that those words instead added favor to my life. Through his words, he motivated me to aim higher and accomplish a worthwhile life of course without him. Currently it is very clear that this is the moment I had been longing for.
Commercializing divorce. An ending marriage is never prepared by the society. Just as weddings, by now you should have thought that someone somewhere should have come with a way of turning an ending marriage into a machine for profit making. It is very sensible considering that half of the first marriages and almost three quarter of subsequent marriages end up in a divorce. It is so common that a slight nerve firm could come in and convert divorce into a gold mine.
Strangers can give help cheaply.People that I never knew in my disorder of ending marriage would mostly question me on; how did you do it? How did you get it over you? People that know me mostly do not ask as they know about almost everything. Answering the questions from strangers, I narrate it, again I narrate it, over and over again. As I continue speaking about it again and again, I realize that am coming over it. A regular chat and sharing with anyone anywhere works for sure.
Do not share with kids despite being single. Realizing when not to say a thing is something I have realized since I turned into a single mom. Though managing household is one of the various things associated with a dying marriage it should not be an irritation and instead you should work hard on them. The job is meant to be mine and I am never to be ever complaining around my babies as to why I am working all the errands alone.
List of grateful at things. I ought to be appreciative to something. Through my journey towards contentment, I have come to a realization that finding your sense of happiness is in the way very essential. Counting my blessings together with looking on the bright side of life is the way to take.
It is conclusive advising that one should join others in sharing their divorce experience as one will be able to come up with various ways upon which he or she can use as stepping stones from the emotional pain of heartbreak.
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