The Occurrence Of Male Wives

By Gwen Lowe


Reversal of gender roles in todays world is one of the most common phenomena in the society. Although it raises eyebrows, the occurrence of male wives and female husbands is more prevalent in the society than anyone would care to accept. This is a case where the husband takes the roles of the wife in a marriage while the wife takes all the roles of the husband including being the sole bread winner.

What this means is that the husbands are taking up their partners roles in the marriage. There are also wives who are for this, and they assume the roles of their husbands as well especially by being the bread winner. Even at workplaces, more women are rising to power now more than before. These women are being empowered, and they fail to separate their authority at work from their home lives.

These wives phenomenon is taking place in the homes of these empowered women whom apparently can do all a man can do and then some. They can earn a living to support them both and the children and so the husband is forced to rake the role of the wife in the house. This they do in order to live harmoniously and also to make sure the kids are cared for.

For some men, they will do this as a way of showing love to their mates. Rather than an expression of weakness, they mean to show how much they care. It is also a way of taking a break from the fatiguing role and just chill in the house as the woman makes the ends meet.

There are men who have married to ladies who have quite an attitude and officious personality. These types of women will nag and throw turn trams till they have what they want. As a gentleman who does not like fighting back, one may choose to step down and let the wife rule the home.

Love is majorly the driver to this change in relationships. The men are willing to relinquish their control in favor of supporting their wives. They may then find it easier to take their roles as it were. They cook and clean and take care of the kids while their wives go out there and achieve their professional dreams. This is quite normal in todays world.

These men will go as far as dressing as women in the home setting and even wearing makeup. It is not abnormal, and these men should not be deemed as gay because they are not necessarily so. They just love playing the role of the wife in a marriage, and this should be understandable. This is why they have their own support network in order to share experiences.

These males who are behaving like women can be looked down upon by fellow men and term them as a disgrace to the male fraternity. The opposite could be the plain truth that they just are men enough to take care of their wives. It is never the ego that shows how a man is good enough, but how much he can go out of his way to be there for his family.




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