Discovering A Jewish And Interfaith Rabbi

By Dennis West


When it comes to individuals whom believe in the tenets of more than one faith, non-traditional officiants are often chosen to perform these services. In the case of a mixed-faith couple such as where one is Jewish and the other of a different faith, a jewish and interfaith rabbi often performs the ceremony. For, there are different aspects to each faith which are often requirements of Biblical law when it comes to marriage.

While a rarity in the past, a number of Jewish rabbis are now performing interfaith weddings. Most common in the California Bay Area, rabbis are officiating interfaith marriages where others only co-officiate along side priests, ministers and pastors. In fact a recent survey which included 881 rabbis in America on such practices showed that the interfaith weddings are become more common.

At the same time, it is important to note that Christian or Jewish denomination does not recognize these leaders who co-officiate at interfaith ceremonies. At the same time, as the individuals are ordained, the State will recognize the marriage as being legal as long as all requirement documentation is signed and submitted according to State law.

A large number of rabbis were surveyed to determine how many would or would not officiate at these non-traditional weddings. The results were mixed with twenty percent saying yes to officiating though only twenty percent of the individuals suggested co-officiating was the only option. As such, couples must then find two officiants which are willing to work along side one another with differing beliefs.

One Northern California rabbi and director of the InterfaithFamily non-profit organization suggest that responses to the survey at the time were not surprising. For, most of the studies took place in the most liberal area of the United States, Northern California. Whereas, the number of rabbis officiating at these ceremonies has nearly doubled since the time of the survey.

In some cases, rabbis have noted that by officiating these non-traditional weddings, it is easier to establish relationships with couples in order to provide counseling when it comes to living an mixed-faith lifestyle. Whereas, if and when a mixed-faith couple decides to have or adopt children, it would be easier to provide advice on how to raise a family on what is clearly a non-charted religious path.

In a day and age when individuals can become ordained ministers online, one Jewish officiant suggest that it is a good sign when a couple requests the services of a rabbi. For, it shows that faith is an important aspect of the relationship. While a member of the more conservative movement that does not allow rabbis to co-officiate, the officiant also said it would be something to consider if there changes to this rule in the future.

All in all, interfaith officiants and ceremonies seem to occur mostly in the liberal areas of the United States. While this is the case, rabbis providing these services hold on tight to Jewish traditions when doing so. For example, one Jewish chaplain and rabbi whom works at a hospital and nursing home in California will co-officiate as long as the ceremony does not include any mention of Jesus Christ. As such, couples often still find difficulty in selecting the right officiants for these non-traditional weddings.




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