Halal Dating Among The Youth And The Rules To Follow

By Rebecca Ross


With this ever-advancing world a lot of things have emerged that back in the older days would have been considered out of the norm. An activity like Halal Dating is one that has created an unexpected harmony among human as it is not bound to one race, religion, nationality or even social class. In Islam courting has not always been on the top of the list when it comes to intimacy and marriage.

There are rules that define this activity and are all in accordance with the religion and this has seen a growth in the beliefs of courting held by many. These rules are not meant to limit one into a number of things they do while courting but they are meant to create harmony between the activity and the religious beliefs that are observed by the observers of this religion.

The rule number one ought to be followed while seeing is to master the art of self-control and not partly but fully. This will help in controlling your own feelings that can get in the way of your relationship with God. When one is not able to control their feelings especially around a person they dont intend to marry, then they sin against both God and themselves.

Follow the rules of Allah and do the right Taaruf that will act as a guide in your relationship. This is similar to courting just that it mainly involves a number of considerations to look into and to carefully evaluate. First, you need to establish that you have well stable finances to support yourself and your partner and also have enough knowledge on how to keep your marriage going over time.

The next rule is one that is for those who have not yet landed that special someone or have already met them but have not yet declared their true feelings to them. So if you have found that one person follows your feelings and declare your love for them and your intentions to want to marry them and if not yet, it is wise to seek help from those you trust to help in finding your partner.

At this stage, it is already established who you intend to marry and you are now both ready to take it to the step of marriage. Now you can start to date in Taaruf and know the type of courting that is acknowledged in Islam in order to go by the activity in the right manner. It is also at this stage where one gets the chance to decide whether or not they want to continue dating.

The courting rules used in halal courting have numerous advantages to those practising it as this becomes the best way in helping to keep your friendship with your partner to be and help in growing mutual respect between each other.

Not all people who support this method of seeing especially those not practising Islam but it is one that should be respected and let to thrive on its own as it is held in great regard in the Muslim community and should not be disrespected.




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