All About Using A Rabbi Funeral

By Betty Murray


Losing someone close to you is a really hard life adjustment and one will want to ensuring that all is done to see that the deceased is buried correctly. This is especially so if the person is Jewish and when this is so, a Rabbi funeral should be consulted to help in areas that one just does not know about. Their are legalities, customs and correct procedures to follow with a burial of this type.

There is a lot that goes into proceedings such as this from watching the body to washing it and preparing it for burial. When a Jew dies, someone called a shomer watches the body and at the same time says prayers from the book of Tehillim or Psalms. It is said that the soul remains connected to the body up until the time of burial and so a watchman is appointed so that the soul of the departed does not become stressed.

It is a special mitzvah or duty to wash the body and prepare it for burial. This is carried out by volunteers in the community and is considered a great act of kindness. After this the body is put in a modest coffin usually made of pine and is placed on a wheeled plinth in readiness for burial.

Guests eventually arrive and it is time for the ceremony to begin. Family members are asked sometimes to say something on behalf of the deceased. Apart from this it is customary to wrent clothing that the mourners are wearing. This is a custom that has been handed down through the ages so if this is customary it is best to wear and old shirt or scarf for women.

After a words are spoken remembering the life of the deceased, pallbearers are called upon to escort the coffin. This list can be made up of family and friends and it is considered to be a great honor. It is an emotionally charged time of the ceremony as everyone gets to remember that part of life they were involved in with the deceased.

Apart from this it allows friends and family time to reflect on the life that was. The grave itself must be dug to certain specifications as dictated by law. Once at the site the coffin is lowered without delay in so keeping with practices of this nature. Further prayers are said and it is covered as soon as possible without delay.

Losing someone in life is not an easy thing and something that will remain with the mourner for the rest of their lives. It is important that the deceased be laid to rest in a dignified way according to these laws and customs. Services such as these can be searched for on the Internet but one's best bet is to find someone within the community to help.

If one is not used to or does not know too much about these sorts of ceremonies then it is a must to consult with people who know. Laws must be adhered to and the only person who will know is this type of person. All in all it is a sad time and it is made easier in knowing that all was done correctly.




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