Trustworthy Environment In Fruitful Relationships

By Jeffrey Jones


Earlier marriages used to be arranged by the family members. Departing after marriage was considered to be a taboo in the society. Due to this the couple learnt to live in disagreement and unhappiness throughout their life. People were not aware of the reasons behind separation. Today therapists have identified the divorce warning signs.

When couples see a smile or hears beautiful words or feels the touch, the sensory organs report to the brain and it sends feedback to the heart about the feeling. This is how people fall in love. This grows and matures only on trust and respect. This is a law of attraction to give in abundance and getting back the same in return.

Culture plays a great role in protecting a marriage or a relationship. It would be better if a person falls in love with the partner in the same ethnicity so that it would be easy to adjust along. Most issues occur due to cultural indifferences. People marrying in different cultures like a rich and poor family find it difficult to cope as time passes.

From top to lower class families domestic violence usually occurs in inferior sections. In reality it is a problem across all social parties. This not only means physical assault, but it is a willful intimidation, sex crime, hurtful abusive behavior. There might be variety of reasons for the hostility. We must understand this hostility will not solve the issue.

Children are another group mostly affected by problems within the family. Dealing with the issues of their parents is very difficult for them. Divorce strains parents and child relationship, create economic hardships, psychological and behavioral troubles. This affects the studies and upbringing of the kids.

Poverty and unemployment is one of the greatest problems among all the countries. Rich are getting richer day by day and the poor are left to suffer. They main reason if the society and government does not give them job as they are not educated. There is lot of professions like working in gas stations or stores and secure their life.

Occupations and complexity regarding earning more also creates problems in relationships. People having jobs in police and military, nurses, bartenders would have less time to share with their family. Wives making more money than their husbands are generally not appreciated by the spouse and thus create ego complexes that lead to separation.

Divorce proceedings in court are a tedious activity. When a husband and wife mutually concur for a separation it will be easily accepted by the court with mutual consent. Cost is not involved when both parties agree for getting departed. Child expenses can be shared between the parents based on the discussions. The counselors help the partners by giving motivation to start a new journey.

Both parties should be willing to adjust for a compromise. Blaming does not give any benefit to any person. Forgiving is a good medicine to help a relationship. Both people need to pardon and let go off the complexes. When all these things are done a relationship can be saved from a divorce.




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