Today Jewish Christian Interfaith Wedding

By Karen Morris


The Laws of Kashrut embody all the dietary laws of any practicing Jew. Jewish Christian interfaith wedding have become more and more popular as communities of these two denominations mingle and mix. It can prove difficult trying to please family members and friends when it comes to arranging a wedding as there are those who will expect to eat foods that have been approved to be eaten.

It is not something that is planned but just happens when two people of different denominations find that they want to spend the rest of their lives together. One may be an orthodox Jew and a practicing one at that where all religious days are practiced. Marry a christian may not be what the parents want but with time it becomes acceptable.

Arranging a wedding to accommodate all the attendees can present some problems. For one food and what will be served may present a problem but with the right caterer all can go ahead as planned. This is because most Jewish people eat only Kosher food which means they have to abide by the dietary laws as set out in the Torah.

Kashrut which is word encompassing all the dietary laws is set out both in the Five Books of Moses or written Torah as well as the oral law that has been handed down through the centuries and has not changed to this day. Only certain foods may be consumed for example fish that have fins and scales and meat of which the animals have cloven hooves and chew the cud, namely cattle. Apart from this there exists a complete procedure as to how these animals are prepared for consumption.

Other considerations need attention such as not serving the hind quarter of the animal. Only the forequarter may be consumed and this too stems from and is derived from the Bible. It makes mention of Jacob fighting the Angel of Esau where they fought for many hours where finally the Angel injures Jacob where the sciatic nerve is located.

So it must be kept in mind what to serve and what not to serve and to delve a bit into the laws of Kashrut just to be certain that couples are both on the same page. For Christians food is not a problem and most will enjoy conventional foods served. One must also remember that if one is serving meat then one will be serving meat that must be kosher and will have been drained of most blood.

The meat is salted too and then washed off time and again to ensure that it meets the correct criteria. All of these nuances on the subject can be studied in depth by going to a Rabbi who is well versed in these laws. It is not essential though and as said, one can leave it to the caterers to organise.

In the world today, intermarrying has become more acceptable as before where many find themselves wanting to know more about each others religion. Many decide to convert and this requires a study on its own. Nevertheless, the occasion can be a festive one with traditions thrown in as they would be in a conventional wedding.




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