Mourning Time With Rabbi Funeral

By Laura Long


It is inevitable that a person life will end at some point. A Rabbi funeral is called for to officiate the ceremony and lay the dead to rest. There are customs that must be adhered to and laws that must be abided by at times such as these.

There are laws in Judaism that are adhered to in order to make the grieving process that more meaningful. For instance, there is a seven day period called Shiva which are the first days directly after a burial has taken place. Some traditions require the mourners to sit down on a low couch or chair whilst guests and attendees come and pay their respects.

This prayer is said during the morning, afternoon and evening services in Synagogue with decorum of ten men present. It may not be said unless this prerequisite is complete in that ten men over the age of Barmitzvah are in attendance. Immediately after the burial has taken place, there is a period known as Shiva in which the family of the deceased accepts guests into their home to offer condolences and support.

This helps with the grieving process and takes the mind off the loss. Emotions are raw at this state and it is best to be kind to oneself in order to grieve completely. Some follow customs of sitting on a low bench or couch and even wearing socks around the house to show that one is in a state of mourning.

The coffin is brought out and laid on a trolley in order to transport it to the designated grave site. Mourners gather around it whilst prayers are said and with that, the coffin is rolled out to the grave. It is customary for there to be pallbearers and these are made up of close family and friends that are given the honour to do just this.

With the body ready for burial it is time for the ceremony to proceed. The coffin is rolled to the grave site and this is when, close family and friends can help to act as pallbearers. This is a great honour and it is a time for those who do so to reflect on the life they had with the deceased.

Be this as it may, grieving hurts and losing someone of love is very hurtful and life changing. Life however does continue and one should make the effort to express those emotions felt. It helps and acts as a release for the bereft person and in so doing, find comfort in the fact that it was an honor to have known the deceased.

It is a time of reflection and remembrance when family members grieve and remember the good times that they had with the deceased. It should also be realised that this life is short and that the soul continues its journey in the next world or world to come. Getting a Rabbi to help and assist is essential when times such as these arise.




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