A Memorable Life Time Event

By David Snyder


Whenever we hear the word Wedding, lots of things comes up in our mind suddenly and naturally. Party, get together of our loved ones, dance, music, rituals and our traditional outfits . We keep on preparing for this occasion since we come to know about the happening dates of those two people who are going to be one soulfully and physically. Rustic wedding venues GA has been staging series of celebrations in a row.

The rural society has its own rules of marriage like endogamy and exogamy. The rules of endogamy are strictly observed where a spouse must be found from the same group and not with others. Exogamy means finding a spouse outside the group or sometimes another village also.

There are some specific aspects of marriage in rural society. Child marriage is very common in rural areas where boys and girls are married at a tender age. The main causes for this are value of virginity, endogamy, joint family system, female illiteracy etc.

Marriage by exchange is prevalent among the lower caste where a brother gives his sister in marriage to a man whose sister is in exchange taken by him as a wife. Rural marriages do not involve much expenditure. Women in rural society are not involved in major decisions pertaining to family affairs. She simply accedes to the wishes of her husband.

Few practices are proven healthy for couples and few are unhealthy. At times individuals have formed negative Impressions on each other. Circumstances demand some transparency where couples fail to show. There are multiple along with diverse festivals are conducted during wedding functions as a custom. However few are not followed. Rare couples would not prefer take traditional things seriously.

Most of the rural marriages are arranged and they will be no divorce cases. They strongly believe that marriages are made in heaven. They view marriage as a religious sacrament. Forced marriages are much common among rural people. Girls living in poverty face a higher risk child, early and forced marriages and especially those without access to education.

Most women of the country get married without even the most basic forms of communication with their husbands before their wedding day. They still opt for traditional and conventional ways in matters of choosing life partners. It has been part of orthodox beliefs.

Present generation is opting mostly love marriages. Youth have become conscious about selecting their life partner. They first meet, talk to each other about interests, habits, views about leading life in future etc . Knowing each other and coinciding with each other in their views makes a coupling success. These talks are crucial as well.

Decoration is the main part of any alliance. Garnished wedding areas with full of natural elements brings serene and sacredness to that place. In some countries the embellishments are done as an honor and prestige in marriages. Rare items were particularly decorated during lavish weddings. Arrangements were properly structured by professional designers in agreed events.




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