How A Muslim Matchmaking Service Can Benefit The Women

By Kenneth Patterson


Most adults who have attempted to traverse the world of online dating wind up seriously disappointed. Not only are many of the female profiles fake, but a great many of the males who actively pursue women in this way are already married or partnered. It might seem impossible to many of us, but some young women are actually benefiting from an online Muslim matchmaking service.

In the religion of Islam, marriage is held as a cornerstone of all civilization. As such, these sites are not the usual experiments in hook-ups or even casual dating that most of us are familiar with. Marriage is always the anticipated outcome when these people meet up.

Most of the world views Islam with some distrust, and for this reason it is very difficult for those living in Western nations to meet others of their faith. Traditionally, families have taken an active role in attempting to match their children with potential mates. This can be both embarrassing and stressful for everyone involved.

Because of the seriousness of marriage in their culture, a new online oasis has been created. This allows young people to make connections outside family, with people their parents are likely to approve of. Not only that, but it has created a world where women are able to have greater power over who they might want to spend time, and possibly the rest of their lives with.

Families who carry strong traditional values are still skeptical about this method of meeting. However, with many successful relationships having led to good marriages, the Western Islamic people are slowly opening up to the idea. Unfortunately, those living in traditionally Islamic countries often cannot even access these sites yet.

With online video chatting programs, now often a part of these sites as well, it is possible to at least get a good look at the person. In casual conversation, viewing one another as if from across the room, two people can take some time getting to know each other. This can help to ensure greater safety before meeting a person for the first time, but it is not a guarantee.

Followers of Islam in Western countries have found these websites are sometimes the only method available for meeting others without family involvement. The same is true to a lesser extent of Jewish families, who often require their children to marry within their faith. Having sites that specialize in a certain group of people has shown much greater promise than simply searching for those of a particular religion on traditional sites.

In a society where women have few opportunities to really choose for themselves, such sites allow them to have a say in whom they might marry. Many Islamic women have never even given much thought to the sort of man they might prefer. However, such services allow these women a vote in how their own lives turn out, and increases their chances at happiness.




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