How can we certain that our marriage will actually survive or if it will fail? I want to share with you one thing that will guarantee that it will in fact fail. Do you think that you know what it is? I'll give you one guess...
If you are like most people you probably said "fighting" because how could fighting be healthy for your marriage, right? WRONG
The truth of the matter is that it is actually the complete opposite. Studies actually have proven that avoiding fights with your spouse is sure fir predictor that your marriage will not survive. It's kind of strange how we try to avoid fighting with our spouse thinking that we are benefiting our marriage. When in fact we are doing the complete opposite.
Now I'm not trying to say that you need to go out now and hunt for your significant other just for the sake of fighting. Fighting doesn't mean that you have a happy marriage either. But what I am saying is that in order to have a healthy marriage you will need to fight once in a while. In fact this actually proves that you are in love with each other. You do need to learn how to fight to be happily married though.
A successful marriage is about learning how to master discussing your differences in a healthy manner. now this is not something that most come by naturally. It is something that we must learn how to do over time. But once you do learn how to fight properly then your disagreements can actually help you build a stronger bond.
I don't care who you are, every successful couple has their disagreements because it is a fact that no two people are 100% compatible. Having your differences is a very healthy part of a good marriage.
You do not have to hunt for the right person in order to succeed in marriage. Instead you need to learn how to have healthy fights with the spouse you already have. Because you are sure to have disputes and differences with anyone you pick. The real question is, can you learn how to discuss or fight through your difference in a healthy manner?
If you are like most people you probably said "fighting" because how could fighting be healthy for your marriage, right? WRONG
The truth of the matter is that it is actually the complete opposite. Studies actually have proven that avoiding fights with your spouse is sure fir predictor that your marriage will not survive. It's kind of strange how we try to avoid fighting with our spouse thinking that we are benefiting our marriage. When in fact we are doing the complete opposite.
Now I'm not trying to say that you need to go out now and hunt for your significant other just for the sake of fighting. Fighting doesn't mean that you have a happy marriage either. But what I am saying is that in order to have a healthy marriage you will need to fight once in a while. In fact this actually proves that you are in love with each other. You do need to learn how to fight to be happily married though.
A successful marriage is about learning how to master discussing your differences in a healthy manner. now this is not something that most come by naturally. It is something that we must learn how to do over time. But once you do learn how to fight properly then your disagreements can actually help you build a stronger bond.
I don't care who you are, every successful couple has their disagreements because it is a fact that no two people are 100% compatible. Having your differences is a very healthy part of a good marriage.
You do not have to hunt for the right person in order to succeed in marriage. Instead you need to learn how to have healthy fights with the spouse you already have. Because you are sure to have disputes and differences with anyone you pick. The real question is, can you learn how to discuss or fight through your difference in a healthy manner?
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