Having a one on one conversation with your partner before you start shopping can make your purchasing decision a breeze. Before you step into the stationary shop to choose your custom anniversary invitations, talk over key decision points with your spouse. With the right preparation, you can design beautiful invitations for your special day with less expense, stress, and time than if you started shopping before you talked.
A stationary designer who sells custom invitations is an expert, but also a salesperson. It is their job to give you what you want, but they will probably suggest their most expensive offerings because of quality and style. Because salespeople work on commission, they will try and help you make a quick decision so that they can serve other customers quickly. This can make decisions stressful if you aren't prepared.
The kind of invitation you want depends on the kind of party you are throwing. Whether you go casual or formal for your bash is up to you, but whatever you choose, your invitation should be an appropriate match. Before you start to shop for your invites, know your party and your party's style.
Find photos online or in magazines that reflect the vibe you are trying to create at your party. Share these pictures with the salesperson, so he or she can suggest the right elements for your invitation. From paper stock to design details, leverage the designer's expertise by clearly communicating the feeling you are trying to achieve.
You and your spouse can also work together to write a short list of words that describe the anniversary party you will have. Words like fancy, formal, relaxed, warm, elegant, lively, and other such adjectives will help you and your salesperson agree on a great stationary design. Try to come up with a list of five to ten guiding words.
Have a conversation about your budget before you meet with a salesperson. If you and your spouse agree that you are willing to spend a specific maximum amount per invitation, you will be able to work with the stationary expert to meet your goals. If you're not sure what you are allowing yourselves to spend, it can be confusing and frustrating for everyone involved.
Have an exit strategy, for if you need a break, or if one of you has decided this vendor isn't the right fit for you. You and your spouse should choose a code word that means you want to go outside and talk privately, one on one. Something like "I think the parking meter is going to run out" is discrete, and will let you leave without hurting your salesperson's feelings.
Shopping together and designing your invitations can be a fun activity as a couple. It's a great part of an anniversary celebration to collaborate on your purchase, and create something you are proud of that reflects your unique bond. Have fun combining your tastes and personalities in your invitation, just like you do in your romantic partnership!
A stationary designer who sells custom invitations is an expert, but also a salesperson. It is their job to give you what you want, but they will probably suggest their most expensive offerings because of quality and style. Because salespeople work on commission, they will try and help you make a quick decision so that they can serve other customers quickly. This can make decisions stressful if you aren't prepared.
The kind of invitation you want depends on the kind of party you are throwing. Whether you go casual or formal for your bash is up to you, but whatever you choose, your invitation should be an appropriate match. Before you start to shop for your invites, know your party and your party's style.
Find photos online or in magazines that reflect the vibe you are trying to create at your party. Share these pictures with the salesperson, so he or she can suggest the right elements for your invitation. From paper stock to design details, leverage the designer's expertise by clearly communicating the feeling you are trying to achieve.
You and your spouse can also work together to write a short list of words that describe the anniversary party you will have. Words like fancy, formal, relaxed, warm, elegant, lively, and other such adjectives will help you and your salesperson agree on a great stationary design. Try to come up with a list of five to ten guiding words.
Have a conversation about your budget before you meet with a salesperson. If you and your spouse agree that you are willing to spend a specific maximum amount per invitation, you will be able to work with the stationary expert to meet your goals. If you're not sure what you are allowing yourselves to spend, it can be confusing and frustrating for everyone involved.
Have an exit strategy, for if you need a break, or if one of you has decided this vendor isn't the right fit for you. You and your spouse should choose a code word that means you want to go outside and talk privately, one on one. Something like "I think the parking meter is going to run out" is discrete, and will let you leave without hurting your salesperson's feelings.
Shopping together and designing your invitations can be a fun activity as a couple. It's a great part of an anniversary celebration to collaborate on your purchase, and create something you are proud of that reflects your unique bond. Have fun combining your tastes and personalities in your invitation, just like you do in your romantic partnership!
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